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        In the last two decades, the nations of the earth have been addressing the issue of “Human Rights”. What is Human Right? Simply put those things that you are entitle to. We hear things like freedom of Speech, freedom of association, freedom of this freedom of that. In real life there are some things we are entitle to naturally, like good health, wonderful relationship with your husband or with your wife. In short a great life that we desire. But the truth is, life will not give you what you deserve but what you demand. This powerful principle was what Jesus was emphasising when He Said “ask and you shall be given, seek and you shall find, knock and it shall be opened”

If you are not really experiencing what you want in your life right now, probably you have not taken into Cognisance these principles am about sharing with you. The truth is “there is only one person responsible for the quality of life you are experiencing now. And that is you”. We are used to blaming others for our woes and the life we are living now. We keep hearing things like “if it’s not for the Country that is bad I would have… it is my step mother who turned me into this” we just must find something to blame it has been like that from the beginning, you remember Adam and Eve and the way they were passing blames when God ask them why they eat the fruits. The truth is nobody wants to take responsibility.

Taking responsibility is one of the greatest principles of Success. Enough of complaining and blaming others for whom and where you are today. It is time to take responsibility for our lives and forge ahead. Where we are today is a combination of different factors like; what you said yesterday, your thought, your association and response. Lou Holtz, a one time Coach of the year in America said “The man who complains about the way the ball bounces is likely the one who dropped it” What an insight! Ninety-nine percent of all failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses.

Why are you still making excuses? You need to move on with your life and be determined that you will get there. (The glorious destiny you have) Your response to whatever you have been facing matters a lot. Two people with the same event will look at it differently, the one with a positive mind will see God in everything and bring out opportunities from the situation, but the one with a defeated mind will sit and be lamenting the failure. So the basic idea is that every outcome you experience in life is the result of how you have responded to an earlier or recent event in your life.

There are three things you have to gain control over because they control your life or they are the determinant of what you are experiencing in your life.

1.     Your Thought

2.     Your Vision

3.     Your Actions

Look at it this way, you are the one that thought the thought, visualize the vision, say the words and acted the way you acted. That is why you are where you are today. So if you keep on doing what you have always done, you will keep on getting what you have always got. So you want to be successful and be one of the people who will impact their generation?  You have to:

1.     Stop giving excuses or Complains.

2.     Take responsibility for your life by getting determined to succeed in spite all odds.

3.     Change your thought.

4.     Change your Vision.

5.     Change your behaviours.

I want to believe that this will challenge you to be that person you were created to be in Christ Jesus, let me have your comments send a mail today I will be glad to read from you and reply you.  bukola@bukolaidowu.com

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